General life.

Well I know I've been quiet but I have been busy with the real world of being a friend, gardening and going out celebrating and socialising.

The being a friend was very rewarding, one of the friends I made at College and the YMCA was having a hard time with her then Boyfriend and he eventually dumped her by of all methods text, so she dumped all of his stuff outside in the rain, I went round the day after she was dumped to hive her a hand putting all of his now very broken things in to as many bags as it took and decided to give her a laugh or two and an entire pot of a very good facsimile of Ben and Jerry's Ice cream which I found out that I am now (or became while with Wendy) lactose intolerant, this would also explain the weight gain I had as my body just had no clue what to do with the lactose so instead of just dumping it out as Wendy does my body just stored it up until it worked out what to do. At the same time I was invited to two birthday parties one of which has passed where I met several people who also know Wendy myself and my dad and they all find dad a self serving manipulative fat creep, while their evaluation of Wendy was a self serving manipulative bitch. they also had their doubts about her reasons for breaking up with her ex before me. I wasn't really surprised at their evaluations of either my dad or Wendy but they said that I was a wonderful and sweet person and that I really shouldn't change and keep as much distance from my dad as I can. And before anybody says a thing they also knew about my codeine dependency and what that did to both myself and Wendy.

Gardening has been fairly slow, due mainly to the weather but I have been keeping the place as clean as I can and doing some poi spinning in the mean time while I have been checking on the cherry tree I have planted and the two new berry bushes (something to do with a Staffie-lab puppy). I also had a chat to an old friend who was going into her third or fourth divorce before she was thirty and I was plain and honest and told her that I had always loved her but the fat bastard (dad) had always got in the way.

Well I'll end it there for now and wish everybody luck in their future.
Steven