Just a couple of things.

As you know by now I still love Wendy and frankly find being without er incredibly painful on a spiritual and emotional level, with this said I know that she is entering into a relationship with someone she met over the internet. This worries me greatly and I'll explain partly with the aid of a picture I shared via Facebook and my own knowledge through both experience and research.

This picture shows the nine noble virtues as the title states. As part of my spirituality I follow I know full well I have failed on a few of them but I also understand that as a human being I will fall short once in a while.

Now as part of these virtues is honesty, listed as truth, this applies to both myself and honesty towards others. Wendy's impending relationship worries me for a number of reasons.
1 I have yet to meet anyone who has not been hurt by an internet relationship, an example of this is my friend Katy. She entered into one of these relationships and was played by the guy she got with. he payed her off against his Ex-girlfriend  who he was still seeing at the time.
2 Wendy doesn't know exactly what she is getting herself in for, the internet is well known for allowing predators a hunting ground, I'm not saying that there aren't predators in real life but the internet allows for a greater degree of lying. A predatory individual has a great many tools at his disposal with the internet and doesn't have to worry about face to face contact scuppering their plans, she may have met this guy once but less than a day isn't long enough to gauge a persons character.
3 I have yet to see an internet relationship last beyond 6 months and not be abusive or lethal. I point to Wendy's first relationship with someone she met over the internet and that became highly abusive over the five years she was involved with him, and also the Craigslist Killer a predatory individual who used the American sight Craigslist to target lonely vulnerable ladies in order to satiate his blood-lust while being married.

Now I see Wendy has a "type" and that type is an abusive and controlling individual who reminds her of her family in some way, this is only going to lead her to her untimely death and his does anger me as I warned her against this when we were together. Now I am going to be blunt in the only way she seems to listen to.

Wendy you are better than the path you are going down. I want to give our relationship another go I do not want to see you on either the Jeremy Kyle show or in a coffin. You are better than your Mother who jumps from one bad relationship to another, yes our relationship got off to a bad start and went down hill for a number of reasons but that is the past and I want you to have a brighter future than you are giving yourself. I believe in you and I love you!

Now I offer you my hand, give us the chance we failed to give ourselves through fear and the baggage we carry, get in contact with me and we can sort everything out.

Steven